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If you look closely, the ability to control your character will be an obvious fact, since to one degree or another everyone who has left infancy (with the exception of mentally ill people) is able to control it. This is precisely what the very idea of raising children is built on, which implies a change in character through a fundamental skill - control over it.
Adults, unlike children, know very well that their children are capable of much more than they think. Unfortunately, as adults, they tend to forget about this. If we take this idea into account, we will have to admit that a person can change himself at any age!
What does character consist of?
Character is physiologically determined by 10–15%. Everything else is our habits that were instilled in us by others or by ourselves. A person's personality is like a giant onion, covered with endless layers of various fixed external influences. Personality is, for the most part, various attitudes introduced into it at one or another stage of life. Having understood this, it will become clear that since they have been vaccinated, then you can get rid of them!
The second thing to understand is that a change in character must pursue a specific goal, in other words, it must be beneficial to the person. An analogy with sports is appropriate here. A person may understand that this is useful, but if he does not know why he personally should do this, then, even if he has developed strong-willed qualities, these activities will soon stop.
At the same time, you can give a lot of examples when seemingly worthless young (and not so young) people changed themselves beyond recognition when they wanted to please a girl, stand up for themselves, get rid of their complexes, and so on. The same can be said about personality: if you know why you need to get rid of this or that trait or why you need to acquire any habit, it will be incomparably easier for you to achieve this!
Of course, some traits are innate. Some are naturally angry, some, on the contrary, are pliable, some are distinguished by mental flexibility, and some are persistent. Each of these types has its own pros and cons, and it is not at all necessary to try to destroy these traits in the bud.
Instead, you should try to take control of them, as they can benefit you in certain situations. Therefore, it is important to teach yourself to understand when it is useful for you to show this or that trait of your nature, and when it needs to be muted.
Develop discipline, self-control, set goals for yourself, and it will be clear to you in what direction and why you need to change your character. This simple and unsophisticated approach has proven its effectiveness in many thousands of lives: no one is stopping you from doing the same! Go for it!
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Results of the implementation of course technologies:
Significant increase in work efficiency, reduction in stress levels, satisfaction with oneself and life, a feeling of self-confidence and self-confidence.
The ability to easily form the personal qualities and character traits necessary to achieve your goals.
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